Saturday, September 7, 2013

What Does School Really Teach Children?

Today is Saturday, September 7, 2013.

By now, all public schools have been in session for at least a few days, and for those that started after Labor Day, the coming week will be the first full week of school.  While I agree that public education in the United States can always be improved, I think that it has been used as a favorite whipping boy for a lot of people with axes to grind.  I'm going to refute every one of the statements in this graphic, so please keep reading.

Public education is not a federal responsibility in the United States, as it is in so many other countries.  Rather, the U.S. Constitution says that all powers not specifically given to the federal government and not specifically forbidden to the states are automatically the province of the individual states.  What this means is that we do not have one overall "education system" in this country.  We have, instead, 50 different systems, one for each state in the Union.  (And yes, we have territories, too, and they have their own systems, thank you very much.)

Yes, I know there is federal legislation called, for lack of a better name, "No Child Left Behind."  That the most recent, and current, re-authorization (2001) of ESEA (Elementary and Secondary Education Act), first enacted in 1965, passed as part of then-President Lyndon B. Johnson's "War on Poverty."  Based on research that discovered a link between poverty and low performance in schools, the act provided extra funding for remedial reading and math education. Since, according to the Constitution, the federal government is not responsible for education, the only reason the federal government could enact a law like this was to provide for "equal access to education."   I should also note, for the record, that the Department of Education, a Cabinet-level office, has only two functions: assuring equal access to education and measuring academic progress across the nation.

The bill was originally enacted through 1970, and has come up for re-authorization every five years.  Since the last re-authorization was 2001, and it's 2013 now, you can figure out for yourself that the 113th Congress has been unable to agree on a re-authorization, which is nothing particularly new, since its predecessors, the 109th, 110th, 111th and 112th Congresses did the same.

Some people may be unaware of this, so I'm going to state it clearly here: The original bill explicitly forbids the creation of a national curriculum.  And in spite of the fact that we do have a Department of Education at the federal level, the office has nothing to do with the creation of a national curriculum.  It's true that, over the years, the various state systems have become somewhat homogenized, due in large part to television and the Internet.  People in one place can see what people in other places are doing, and schools in one state often adopt curriculum ideas and delivery systems originally created in other areas.  Still, it's important to realize that there is no national curriculum, nor has there ever been, nor will there be, unless the U.S. Constitution is amended.

OK, that said, I want to look at the statements in today's image.  I'd like to point out that a lot of what people think about schools was originally put into their heads when they were in school, so many of our ideas about schools are those of pre-adolescents and adolescents, and not those of adults.  It's amazing, actually, how many ideas from our pre-adult years are still deeply held and deeply felt.

1.  Truth comes from authority.  Actually, that's not the case.  What we would very much like to get across to kids, especially nowadays, when anybody can upload information onto the World Wide Web,  is that it is necessary to look at all sides of an issue, and it is necessary to evaluate sources of information for accuracy, reliability, and bias.  Students must be taught to look at all the information out there, whether they agree with it or not, whether their parents agree with it or not, whether their church agrees with it or not, and whether their or their parents' political party agrees with it.  Even if you disagree with "authority," you do have to recognize that some people think of it as authority.  And in order to disagree with "authority," you have to know what authority says, in the first place.  That's why we teach what accepted authority says in our schools.  It's a springboard from which we can form our own individual thinking, not a platform to rest on.  If you do a study of what was taught in schools in the past, you will get an idea of how "accepted authority" changes.  What you were taught in your elementary school is not necessarily what will be taught to your grandchildren.  Don't make the mistake of thinking that everything schools taught decades ago is still being taught today, or that it will continue to be taught in the future. 

Categories in Bloom's Taxonomy
(Anderson & Krathwohl, 2001)
Image:Wikipedia Commons
2.  Intelligence is the ability to remember and repeat.  Sorry, but this is way off.  The ability to remember and repeat information is the lowest level of learning, according to Bloom's Taxonomy, a classification of levels of educational objectives.  Modern IQ tests actually focus not on knowledge of facts and figures, but on pattern recognition, which is at the heart of all learning.  Of course, you have to know what patterns there are already before you can create your own, and there are certain things that it is useful to have in your head, rather than have to depend on a calculator or the Internet to look them up.  If you were upset at having to memorize addition facts and multiplication tables, I'm sorry, but if you went ahead and memorized them, you will be ahead of the game if the electrical grid should ever fail and all the computers become useless, and the calculators run out of battery power.  Notice, also, that analysis and evaluation, which I mentioned in terms of information sources from "authorities," are at the top of the chart, meaning they are the most advanced levels of learning.  They depend on pattern recognition, and guess where you learned that: in kindergarten and first grade, when you made paper chains – red, blue, red, blue, red, blue...  Frankly, the vast majority of students don't get to the top of this chart, and if you are one of that majority, perhaps you didn't get there, either.  Just saying.

3.  Accurate memory and repetition are rewarded.  Sure, they are, because it's a start, but if you think that's the only thing that is rewarded, you are way off the mark.  The best rewards are internal ones, not external.  For those students who become proficient readers, reading is its own reward, because it allows us to delve into subjects that are of interest to us, personally, and it allows us to learn whatever we like outside of what is taught in a classroom.  It would be so nice if everyone could come to the understanding that school is like a base camp for mountain climbers.  Anyone who wants to get to the top of the mountain has to climb up from there.  It is not the responsibility of those who maintain the base camp to see to it that climbers get to the top.  Sure, they can provide the climbers with equipment, but the final responsibility rests with each individual climber.  That means you.  The schools are supposed to provide students with basic knowledge and skills.  The students are supposed to take it from there.  So my question is this: Did you envy the little rewards given to other students for their efforts without trying to earn one for yourself?  Did you just accept the Skittles the teacher handed out, or the little piece of paper that said you did a Good Job, without making any further effort?  That's your problem, not the fault of the schools. 

4.  Non-compliance is punished.  Have you been in a school building as an adult?  Have you had to manage up to 35 kids in one room without the situation devolving into complete and utter chaos?  If not, then you don't have a clue.  For anything to get done, even such a menial task as taking attendance, there has to be some semblance of order in a classroom.  Otherwise, the public would well and truly have something to complain about, because nothing would get accomplished.  Seriously.  All educators know that it takes only one child to completely disrupt a classroom.  The rules are there to ensure smooth operations and logistics, student safety, and the creation of an optimum learning environment.  I'm sorry you didn't like the rules, but to be realistic, any human endeavor that involves groups here on the physical plane has to include some form of organization, if chaos is to be avoided. 

As far as teachers expecting students to comply with handing in assignments and taking tests, I have to remind you that in order for grades to be as "objective" as possible, there has to be some "evidence" of student learning, which is why teachers collect student work and why they give paper and performance tests.  In high schools, gradebooks are legal documents that can be challenged, so teachers have to document how they arrived at a particular grade for the student.  Many high school students are unaware that teachers are required to give a certain number of grades per quarter, trimester, or semester (whatever the grading period is).  If a student refuses to hand in an assignment, the teacher has no other option than to give the student a zero or an F, or whatever mark is used for "non-compliance."  I'm sorry if you see that as a punishment.  I always told my students, "I don't give you a grade.  You earn it and I record it in my gradebook."

5.  Conform: intellectually and socially.  I don't believe this is something you learn in school.  It is something you learn outside of school.  Public schools simply reflect what is currently socially acceptable.  If society changes, schools will change, too.  I find it exasperating in the extreme to hear people complaining that schools enforce conformity when those same people expect their own children to conform to their own beliefs and moral values.  If you want conformity, look to the churches. And since when do businesses and corporations get off the hook?  They expect conformity from their employees.  What about the military?  Now there's an organization built on conformity.  Public schools are mirrors of society, not the original image.  

Change yourselves and your public schools will change.  :-/

Friday, September 6, 2013

The Other Shoe Drops

Shellie Zimmerman
Photo credit: Gary W Green/
Getty Images/ABC News
Today is Friday,  September 6, 2013.

A few days after her interview with ABC News, in which she said she wasn't sure how much longer she could stay with her husband, George Zimmerman, Shellie Zimmerman has filed for divorce.  Understandably, her husband's murder trial has  put a great strain on the marriage – that would strain anyone's marriage.  The fact that the couple had to live in hiding with security guards after the verdict can't have helped, either.  

Frankly, I'm not sure I would want to stay married to a man whose idea of solving problems is to power people down with guns.  That just seems like a ticking time bomb, to me.  

But the piece of news that I really honed in on in this story was that on the day Trayvon Martin was killed, Shellie and her husband had just had an argument, and she had left to stay with her father!  So the other shoe has dropped: This is why Zimmerman wanted to go out and shoot somebody.  He was mad because his wife had argued with him and left.  

We all know that Trayvon had had a bad time at school in the days before he was shot, and that he had been sent to his father's home to wait out a suspension from school, so he had his own reason to be angry.  

So many horrid things happen when people are angry!  Our anger so often causes us not to think clearly.  It causes us to  jump to conclusions, to be controlled by knee-jerk reactions.  The people who have threatened George Zimmerman and his wife with bodily harm or death are no better; they are also caving in to knee-jerk reactions based on their anger.  

Nothing, nothing good comes from anger.  Nothing.  :-(

Thursday, September 5, 2013

Take What You Need... and Share It

Today is Thursday, September 5, 2013.

You may have seen one of these posters on a bulletin board or light pole.  They're actually a neat idea, and people do take the little tabs.  I suspect that people who take the tabs don't necessarily believe that they can actually "take" any of these things, but the fact is that you can take them.  Not only that, but if you don't take them, nobody else –even God – is going to give them to you.  You have to ask.  We only get what we ask for in life.  "Ask, and it will be given to you, seek and you will find, knock and the door will be opened to you," says the Bible in Matthew 7:7 (New International Version).  

Why is this so?  I believe that it works this way because Souls who are embodied in human forms have been given a very important gift: free will.  We have earned the right to this gift because of our experiences in other lifetimes.  The gift of free will is a teaching gift, because once you have it, you have to take responsibility for all of your choices, even the ones you make unconsciously.  Nobody – not even God – can take it away from you.  After all, what's the point of a gift if it can be taken away?   Anything that can be taken away is not really a gift, it's a control mechanism. That would be conditional, rather than unconditional love.  And one thing God is known for is unconditional love.

If we want something, we must be in agreement with it on some level.  At first it seems really silly that we would not be in agreement with happiness or peace, but the fact is that we are out of agreement, out of alignment, with these qualities on some level, usually on a subconscious level.  The trick is to delve into our unconscious to root out those deeply-held beliefs that take us out of alignment love, peace, happiness, etc. 


Here is a list of words I found on images of posters on the Internet: 

peace
hope
forgiveness
faith
patience
love
freedom
strength
inspiration
confidence
healing
laughter
grace
passion
courage
motivation
gratitude
understanding
happiness
help
time
rest
beauty

I would add the following:
 
humility
wisdom
discernment
detachment
acceptance
tolerance
contentment
discrimination
support
protection
creativity

I realize that it's a rare person who asks for humility, detachment or discrimination, and if often seems that the people who need them most aren't getting them.  What they are getting, however, is experiences that will teach them something.  It's a good thing that we have as many lifetimes as we need to learn all this stuff.  Who can learn it all in one lifetime?  Not I.   

Once you get the quality you desire, find a way to share it with others.  That's really what all these things are for, anyway: to qualify us to serve all Life.  :-)

Wednesday, September 4, 2013

Women's Wednesday: On Being a Woman

Today is Wednesday, September 4, 2013.

I'm not quite sure how I became aware of Women's Wednesday, but when I looked it up, I realized that it probably started as an advertising ploy to pull female customers in.  I see that lots of different businesses have special deals for women on Wednesdays.  There are also Working Women's Wednesdays. 

Here on Blogspot and also on Facebook, Diana Black hosts Women's Wednesday Weblink, a "celebration of women every Wednesday on the web." Her aim is to "celebrate sisterhood, share ideas, embrace similarities, and discuss differences."  She has been posting for about four-and-a-half years. She's posted  some great quotes by famous women.  Every week, she posts "a positive, life-affirming quote from a woman who clearly has a message to share." 

Over the years, I've thought a lot about why I came into this lifetime as a woman.  In my spiritual belief, I am Soul, and Soul is neither male nor female.  Rather, Soul includes qualities that are associated with both genders.  In each successive lifetime, we hone and refine different qualities, and the more lifetimes a Soul has here in the physical plane, the more It learns about integrating male and female qualities into a seamless whole.

What does it mean to be a woman? 

A lot of people might answer that question with statements about being a mother.  Others will talk about a woman's role in relationships.   But what if you don't have any children and you are not in a relationship?   Are you still a woman?

I never really thought of it this way before, but according to an article for Planned Parenthood, gender is "our social and legal status."  That seems true, in light of the fact that there are Souls in male bodies who wish to live as females, and vice versa.  Gender identity is how you feel about your gender and how you express it to the world.  The article reminded readers that culture determines gender roles and ideas about what is feminine and what is masculine.

Here are some words commonly used to describe femininity: dependent, emotional, passive, sensitive, quiet, graceful, innocent, weak, flirtatious, nurturing, self-critical, soft, sexually submissive and accepting.   Not all of these qualities are necessarily positive, in my opinion.

Here are words typically used to describe masculinity: independent, non-emotional, aggressive, tough-skinned, competitive, clumsy, experienced, strong, active, self-confident, hard, sexually aggressive, and rebellious.   Not all of these qualities are positive, either, but most of them are. 

If you took the positive qualities from each list and combined them, you would have someone who is self-reliant but appreciative of others and respectful of relationships, someone who is capable of feeling but who doesn't wear their emotions on their sleeves in order to control others, someone who is equally at home working in the background as being in the lead, someone who is strong and graceful, someone who is experienced or in the process of gaining experience, someone who is smart, self-confident, an independent thinker who values the opinions of others, and someone who is capable of being soft or hard, as the occasion requires.

Personally, I believe that I came in as a woman this time in order to balance some karma that I incurred in past lives as a woman.  To me, that makes a great deal of sense.  The fact that I have never been pregnant in this lifetime and that I have spent the majority of my lifetime flying solo also makes sense in this context, because I am exploring what it is to be a woman besides being a child bearer, nurturer, caretaker, or helpmeet. 

I'll let you know when I figure it out.  :-)

Tuesday, September 3, 2013

What Weighs You Down?

Today is Tuesday,  September 3, 2013.

"If you want to fly, give up everything that weighs you down."  –Toni Morrison

The other night I had a dream in which I was visiting a woman who was in one of my writers' groups.  She is married and has a little girl now, and although we don't correspond much anymore, I knew that I was visiting her family in the dream.  They all wanted to go to an outdoor festival of some kind, and asked me to come along, but I declined, saying that I had to leave.  I needed to shower and pack first.  They went out without me. 

I felt a little rushed as I packed my things.  I had lots of papers with me, for some reason, and other bulky things that I didn't really need.  I gathered as many things as I could in my arms, realizing that I did not have a car in this dream.  I was also aware that I didn't have much money.  I wasn't entirely sure where I was supposed to go, and had no idea how I was going to get there. 

I started out the door, then realized I forgot an extra pair of shoes, so I went back in and grabbed the shoes without packing them.  For some reason, I felt that I was in a hurry.  Some friends of my hosts' came by and asked where they were, so I had to stop, put my things down, and explain, telling them why they weren't at home and why I was just leaving. 

When the people left, I noticed in my things an old cell phone.  It looked sort of like an iPhone, except it was old.  When I turned it on, there was a message playing, but it was a little garbled, as if the phone were running out of energy.   I knew it was "the police" calling, telling me I had to call them back and tell them where I was.  I was aware that I was running away from them. 

By this time, I was aware that I was dreaming, so I began to control things a bit.  I decided to use my credit card for travel, and realized that I needed to get rid of some of the things I was carrying, as I didn't really need them.  I decided to ditch the old phone at the bottom of a lake.

Then I woke up.

I am not wanted by the police.  I do not have two cell phones.  However, I realized that I do probably have a lot of "baggage" that needs to be unloaded in this lifetime, and that I have some residual guilt that needs to be released.  The fact that "the police"  (my guilt) were calling me on an old phone seems to indicate that it's an old message in my subconscious.  

For me, all of life has been a process of giving up things that weigh me down so that I can fly.  The fact that I am now aware in my dreams that the baggage I have is unnecessary is a step forward.

Now to unload.   :-)

Monday, September 2, 2013

I've Lived in Two of the Happiest, Healthiest Cities in America

Falls of the Big Sioux River, Sioux Falls, SD
Photo credit: www.siouxfalls.org
Today is Monday, September 2, 2013.

ABC News has a report on the Top Ten Happiest, Healthiest Cities in America, of which Sioux Falls, South Dakota, is number 9.  The article was originally published by Prevention magazine. Sioux Falls is noted as being the  "all-around healthiest" of 100 cities that were tracked, based on residents' self-rating of their own health, even though it did not score that well in the "fitness" or "nutrition" categories.  The article notes that people are generally pretty good at assessing their own health, so if they say they feel great, they probably do. 

One Sioux Falls resident is quoted as saying, "It's very free-spirited here, laid-back, and very family oriented.  It's got a small-town feel, and yet it's big enough to make sure there's a good selection of things to o, from shopping downtown to eating at new restaurants."

Sioux Falls was also rated highly for easy commutes to work, low crime and unemployment rates, and access to health care.  The city's main attraction is it's namesake, Falls of the Big Sioux River, located in Falls Park, which covers 123 acres and is located adjacent to the downtown area.  

I can't personally attest to the description of Sioux Falls as "free-spirited," but I would definitely say the city has a casual feel, which probably does encourage a stress-free lifestyle. As well, it's an easy city to get around in, once you get used to it, and there are plenty of parks, including some state park areas nearby, where people can enjoy outdoor activities.  The food available in stores is probably fresher here than in other cities, simply because it is closer to rural areas where the food is produced.  

Downtown Minneapolis from the East Bank of the
University of MN * Photo credit: Forbes
Another metro area on the list of ten best that I have lived in is the Minneapolis-St. Paul metro area, in Minnesota, which came in at number 3.  These two cities are noticed for the "hardiest hearts."  The metro area boasts miles of bike trails and a chain of man-made lakes that provide over 2 miles of canoeing area.  The Twin Cities also have the highest per-capita number of farmer's markets, largely due to the high concentration of Hmong immigrants, for whom gardening and selling produce is a way of life.  

I've seen statistics elsewhere indicating that the people who stay in the Twin Cities are those who enjoy outdoor winter activities, such as ice skating and cross-country skiing.  Many of the parks are groomed especially for cross-country skiing in the wintertime.  High schools in the area have a competitive hockey teams, and kids can be seen on roller blade skates in the summer, to keep up their skating skills year-round.  In fact, I've seen pickup hockey games played in the streets on summer evenings in the suburbs.   In summer, especially, the walking paths around all of the lakes in both cities are packed with walkers, roller-bladers, and bikers.  The lakes that allow boating are packed with boaters in the summer, and in winter many of the lakes are fit for ice fishing, if weather permits.  

I guess it's a good thing that I've spent the last 20 years of my life in these healthy places, not that my own personal health is anything to write home about.  At least my home location itself doesn't contribute to my health condition.  :-)



Sunday, September 1, 2013

It Only Takes One

Photo Credit: Watlking the Earth Touching the Sky/
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Today is Sunday, September 1, 2013.

ONE

One tree can start a forest;
One smile can begin a friendship;
One hand can lift a soul'
One word can frame the goal;
One candle can wipe out darkness;
One laugh can conquer gloom;
One hope can raise your spirits;
One touch can show you care'
One life can make a difference,
BE that ONE TODAY! 

 –Walking the Earth Touching the Sky 

I realize that the converse is also true: one bad apple can spoil the bunch, etc.  But I know that I have a choice, so if it's my choice, then I choose to be the one to create a positive outcome, if not for others, then for myself.

One can do the laundry.  One can clean up the kitchen.  One can go grocery shopping...  :-)